My wife and I had dinner this evening with a young couple from our church. Both have recently graduated from seminary and have just entered the world of church ministry. I am simultaneously thrilled for them and scared for them.
We talked of their hopes and ambitions as a ministry couple. I was reminded of my own enthusiasm and dreams in my first ministry position almost 30 years ago now. Ministry provided me many wonderful experiences and often gave a real sense of purpose. I found myself revisiting several fond memories. I hope for them many years of success, joy, purpose, and fulfillment.
Our conversation, however, also allowed them the opportunity to voice some of their early frustrations and struggles. They asked for wisdom (as if I actually had any to give). Their questions brought to mind many difficult, hurtful times in my own years as a minister. I felt inadequate to provide any true insight into the difficulties they are now experiencing and will experience in the future.
Whether ministry or some other career path, I suppose each of us face joys and difficulties. If we are wise we embrace the joys and seek advice for the problems. Experience teaches us that many difficulties have no solutions, however. They simply are. Learning to accept them as part of life allows us to push beyond them to grasp that which provides us joy. I know this truth in my head, but I still have difficulty living it. I hope my young friends are able to learn this more quickly than I, before their problems squash their joys.
Currently, my joy lies in other areas besides church ministry. I find joy in photography. It’s important for us to do what God calls us to do, but always understand the whatever path we take we are not guaranteed an easy way. Every path has its joys and difficulties. God is with us in both.
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Depressing.